Wheedling

Part of speech: verb

Definitions

1. The process of employing insincere charm or persuasion involves coaxing another into compliance or agreement using flattering language or emotional appeals
2. Engaging in a tactic of soft-spoken influence or flattery, often described as a way to maneuver someone into granting a favor or concession
3. The act of gently persuading someone to do something by using charm or flattering words

Etymology: "Wheedling" is simply the -ing form of "wheedle," so its story is really the story of the verb. "Wheedle" appears to be a word of uncertain origin, and the -ing ending turns the verb into a noun or participle describing the act itself: coaxing someone with soft words, charm, or flattery until they give in. The verb "wheedle" is the more interesting part. Its earliest sense was closer to deceiving or cajoling someone into a course of action, and the idea of using sweet talk to get one's way grew from there. Over time the emphasis settled on the gentle, almost sly quality of the persuasion, which is why the word still carries a faint suggestion of manipulation alongside its charm.

Synonyms: coaxing, cajoling, persuading

Antonyms: discouraging, dissuading