Courtois

Part of speech: adjective, noun

Definitions

1. Characterized by politeness and graciousness, often showing respect and consideration towards others
2. Exhibiting refined manners and etiquette in social interactions, reflecting a sense of civility
3. Displaying an attitude of kindness and formality, particularly in dialogue or behavior towards individuals in various contexts

Etymology: "Courtois" is the Middle English-era borrowing of the Old French adjective "courtois," meaning courtly, refined, and well-mannered. The French word itself grew from "cort," the royal or noble court, so its core idea is behaviour fitting a princely household rather than simply pleasant conduct. In that sense, a person described as courtois was someone who had absorbed the manners expected in a great hall. English took the word largely as a term of praise for that polished, deferential manner. Its sense stayed close to the French, so the modern meaning of polite in manner still carries the old link to life at court. The word remains a rarer, somewhat formal choice in English, which makes its origin in courtly etiquette easy to hear.